Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Hello 3rd Trimester!

  

Wow.  28 Weeks.  I can't believe I am already in my third trimester.  This pregnancy has gone by very quickly.  I have been truly blessed with a very easy pregnancy so far, although I am hoping my luck doesn't run out just about the time labor begins...

I know I haven't been very good about blogging updates about this pregnancy, or posting updates on the 'belly bump', but honestly centering a blog around how much big my stomach is getting doesn't really appeal to me!  Matthew and I have been taking pictures along the way, because we do want to document (privately) this wonderful, exciting time in our lives.  Starting the third trimester, I decided it is finally time to share some pictures.

Matthew was promoted from assistant photographer, to head photographer for a little maternity photo shoot. I am still not at that perfect, full, round belly stage.  So, while Matthew was taking pictures I was trying to push my stomach out a little more.  When we got home and were looking at the pictures, Matthew says, "Wow!  You look huge!"  (just what every woman wants to hear!!!)  He quickly followed that gem of a statement up by saying that he was just surprised because I looked bigger in the pictures than I do in person.  That made me feel a little better, sort of...


As we were taking pictures on the hay bales, a farmer drove past on his tractor.  Matthew kept shooting, and the look on the farmer's face cracks me up! (I added a closer cropped photo so you can see his face better)

 
 

I was working hard on setting up this shot with the sun flare...
 

But, by the time we switched places, the sun went behind the clouds.  Oh well!

So there you go!

On other, pregnancy-related topics, Matthew and I have the nursery/guest room/office/storage room just about set up.  Since I got our crib from Jen, and it is a US sized crib- which is different from a French sized crib, I ordered bedding from Pottery Barn.  My mom is bringing it when she comes in November.  We moved our futon from the living room, since we had to get rid of the queen bed that was in the room.  This is where my mom will sleep for the 7 weeks she is here (sorry Mom!).  While Matthew was off for the August vacation time, we received our order from Ikea that included our new couch and a dresser for the nursery.  We were also loaned a second dresser from a co-worker of Matthew's.  This has definitely not been the nursery decorating experience that I always imagined.  I have had more than one meltdown (let's just blame those on the hormones) over how much stuff we have to fit into that one room.  Then there is the issue of this being a rental apartment and not wanting to deal with trying to take off the existing wallpaper and trying to paint or re-wallpaper (and then possibly having to re-do it all again before we move to get it back to something the owner approves of).  Matthew promised me that for our next child (when we are back in the US) I will get to finally design and decorate the nursery of my dreams (on a budget of course!).  Here are some pictures of what we have so far.
 Now that I have a dresser to put clean clothes into, I have been doing loads and loads of baby clothes that were given to me by a French friend.  I have one big drawer filled with nothing but gigoteuses (the sleeping bag things the French put babies in while sleeping) and pajamas.

I have another drawer filled almost entirely with onesies!

This has been a really long post, sorry! Hopefully this satisfies all the 'baby bump' update requests I have gotten.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Our Visit to Holland

The morning after the wedding, Matthew and I had breakfast at the hotel with the newlyweds and the other wedding guests staying at the hotel.  After saying our good-byes, we hit the road.  We decided to take a slight detour on our drive back to Amsterdam to see one of the things Holland is famous for- windmills!  We were a little out of season to see Holland's famous tulips, and we had been sampling the famous Dutch cheeses since we arrived...so seeing windmills was next on our list.

Before leaving France, I found on the internet some towns that weren't too far out of our way.  Our first stop was the town of Heusden.

The town was badly damaged during WWII, but was completely restored in 1968- including the restoration of the 3 windmills that originally adorned the town's walls.

Matthew and I completely fell in love with Heusden.  It is utterly charming, from the harbor, to the windmills, to the cobblestone streets, to the walking paths that meander all around the perimeter of the town's walls (these walls are not walls in the traditional sense, but remind me more of a smaller version of the dike in Clemson).  The weather could not have been more beautiful for our stroll through this beautiful town.  The website where I read about Heusden called the town one of Holland's "best-kept secrets".  I can't compare it to much else in Holland, but it was wonderful and I highly recommend it to anyone who might be taking a trip to The Netherlands!


Our next stop was the town of Kinderdijk.  The 19 windmills (arranged in 2 lines on each side of the river) are the most well-known windmills in Holland.  They are part of the UNESCO World Heritage List, and it is hard to find a book about Holland that doesn't include at least one photo of Kinderdijk.


We parked the car and walked through the main street in town and down to river.  We hopped aboard a little boat that cruised down the river in between the two lines of windmills.


I was fascinated to see that people actually live in the windmills! 


After grabbing a late lunch, we were back on the road and headed to Amsterdam. We had to drop off our rental car near the airport and then take the train into downtown Amsterdam.  We chose a hotel that was walking distance from the train station.

It was about 9:00 by the time we set out to find a place to eat dinner (normal French time for dinner, very late for a Dutch dinner).  The street we were on was packed with restaurants, bars, and college-aged students.  After walking to the end of the street and back, we settled on an Irish pub promising good 'fish-n-chips', thinking as close as we were to the UK, they had to be good, right?  And they were, although I was so hungry I think I could have eaten anything!  Then it was back to the hotel (just as the streets were really getting lively with lots of red-eyed young people, hmmm, I wonder why...).

Unfortunately, we only had one day to see the sights in Amsterdam and we woke up Wednesday morning to a torrential downpour and freezing cold temperatures!  Neither of us thought to bring a raincoat, but I do always carry an umbrella in my purse.  Luckily the hotel desk had another one for Matthew to use.  We darted down the street to a 'pancake' house and ordered breakfast.

The 'pancakes' are more the thickness/taste of a French crepe.  Mine had apples, raisins, and honey.  Matthew chose a ham and cheese pancake.
 Originally I had planned for us to take a  'Canal-Hopper' boat that was a hop on/hop off type tour boat that would take us to all the major sights.  With the rain, we decided the tram might be a smarter option.  Our first stop was the Rijksmuseum, home to a large collection of Rembrandts, as well as other famous Dutch artists.  Now, I hate to admit it, but I am not that crazy about museums in general.  I know, I know, it's horrible, but except for seeing the one or two famous paintings that I remember from my art appreciation class at Clemson, I find it all pretty boring.  Ironically, Matthew is just the opposite.  He loves museums and spent 8 hours straight in the Louvre during a weekend layover in Paris for a business trip.  However, when it is raining cats and dogs, staying dry and warm in a museum didn't sound half bad.  Apparently, everyone else in Amsterdam had the same idea...
We waited in line outside for over an hour in the pouring rain.  All we could do was look at each other and laugh from our huddled positions under the umbrellas.  Finally, it was our turn to go in.  We rented the headsets, which I highly recommend if you are like me and not crazy about museums.  The information given on the headsets about background information of the painter or the time period made the paintings much more interesting to me.
After the Rijksmuseum, we took the tram over to the Anne Frank House.  Luckily the skies had cleared (temporarily), so for our next hour wait in line, at least the sun was out.

Matthew and I were both really impressed with the Anne Frank House.  Anne's father, Otto Frank, was the only one of the eight that hid in the house to survive the concentration camps.  He played a big part in creating the museum.  I thought it was really well done.  Even though there was no furniture in any of the rooms (at the request of Otto Frank), the pictures and memorabilia on the walls were enough.  They even had Anne's original diary and sheets and sheets of paper containing her short stories.  There was also the beginning of the revised diary that Anne started because she planned on one day publishing her diary.

I personally got chills towards the end, in the room that showed which concentration camp each person went to, and how each died (with the exception of Otto).  Anne Frank and her sister, Margot, were sent to Bergen-Belsen.  Margot died from typhus in March 1945.  Only a few days later, Anne also died from typhus.  Sadly, just a few short weeks later, on April 15, 1945, the camp was liberated by British Troops.  My great-grandfather was the Director of the Pictorial Branch of the US Army during WWII.  He was traveling with the British Troops that liberated the camp, and was the first American there.  I remember visiting Popo (that's what the Colonel Charles Curtis Mitchell was called by his great-grandchildren) and seeing the horrific, framed black and white photographs in his office from Bergen Belsen.  My grandmother donated his photographs and journals to the Breman Jewish Heritage and Holocaust Museum in Atlanta, and they are part of the permanent collection there.  The pictures of the mass graves were unbelievable to look at, but Popo said it had to be documented for “…those not present as eyewitnesses, because such inhumanity would be beyond belief.”  My grandmother once asked him why in the world he would keep such pictures above his desk, and he said, "So I will never forget". 

 "One picture showed me standing on the edge of an open grave. It was shot on purpose because I suddenly thought of all of the people I knew with short memories… They would be the ones who would say, “Nonsense Mitchell, Belsen couldn’t have been that bad…” -Colonel Charles Curtis Mitchell

My grandfather is working on finding the cds with scanned copies of all of Popo's photographs.  If he is able to find them, he will email them to me and I will post some.

After a great, but wet, day in Amsterdam we had dinner at the Hard Rock Cafe.  Don't judge me.  I know we were in a different country and should be sampling local cuisine, but we had just spent an entire weekend with Dutch people, eating Dutch food (and fyi, we told Mark and Silke that the Dutch must be the ones really responsible for settling The South because every meal we sat down to included something fried, several types of mayonnaise-based salads, and lots and lots of different types of pies!  Paula Deen would have been proud).  Matthew had never been to a Hard Rock, and I was craving good ol' American food.  I thought I had died and gone to Heaven when I got my side salad with ranch dressing!  Kind of sad, I know. 

We flew back to Clermont the next day.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Mark and Silke's Wedding Weekend in Holland: The Wedding Day!

Mark and Silke are married!  

Some pictures (and commentary) of their wedding day.


After a beautiful weekend, Monday morning we woke up to gray skies and rain.  I have to admit I was panicking a little, since every place we planned to take pictures was outside.  Oh well, not much you can do to control the weather!  Matthew dropped me off at Silke's mom's house to start photographing Silke getting her hair and makeup done.
 

Petra arrived and it was time to get Silke into her dress!

 

Following Dutch tradition, Mark arrived to pick up Silke.  Silke waited in her mom's backyard while we brought Mark, with his eye's closed, to the back door.  It was such a sweet moment to watch Mark see Silke for the first time.  This is one of the best things about being a photographer- not only do I get to capture special moments like this for people, but I also get to be there and share them (although I don't think they even realized I was there!).  This is also one of the most stressful parts of being a photographer...there is no way to re-create moments like this.  That is a lot of pressure!

Mark seeing his beautiful bride for the first time.

 
The theme for the wedding was inspired by the famous Dutch blue and white ceramics from Delft.  And wooden shoes, of course!  The florist added these adorable little porcelin blue and white shoes throughout the wedding- in the bouquets, on the boutonnieres, in the centerpieces.  (I might have stolen a few from the centerpieces at the end of the night for my Christmas tree, only because they will go so well with the Delft blue and white Christmas tree ornament that were given away as favors...)

 
Oh, by the way, did I mention that by the time Mark arrived, the skies had cleared and the sun was out?!?  I was so happy I could hardly stand it!  Now that we had picture-perfect weather, it was time to take some pictures of the happy couple.  Mark and Silke got into their amazing ride for the day- a beautiful silver vintage Mercedes.
 
I can't take credit for this next photo- Matthew took it.
 
We followed Mark and Silke to a nearby park to start our pictures.  There had been a huge storm the week before, so there was a lot fallen trees and debris on the ground, but we were still able to find some beautiful places.

 



We actually finished pictures with a few minutes to spare, so we drove to a wheat field that is right beside the castle (yeah, that's right, castle) where the civil ceremony was to take place.  By this time the clouds were rolling in, but I thought it just made the sky beautiful.


The photo from the top of the blog, one more time, because I just love it!
 
 

Just like in France, in Holland a wedding consists of a civil (legal) ceremony and a church (religious) ceremony.  First up- the civil ceremony.

Mark and Silke's bulldog, Tango (also known as le chien cochon, "the dog pig" by Bertrand's daughter, Lisa), was the ringbearer (and Bertrand was the dogwalker!).  Apparently the stress of carrying the rings tired Tango out.  He started snoring during the ceremony!

 

Next- church wedding.
 
After the church ceremony, Mark and Silke served the guests champagne.  We toasted the newlyweds, and then it was party time! 
 


Congratulations Mark and Silke.  It was a beautiful wedding, thank you for sharing it with us!